Archive for October, 2012

Greetings Darlings of all things Expansive and Knowing – I so appreciate that we get to spend this time together. As I write, I imagine all of you here with me, each of us pouring our unique blended-ness into the soup that is this luscious life experience. So what’s got me sharing today? The Art of Receiving, that’s what. Most of us have grown up with the axiom – It’s Better To Give Than To Reveive. Well, I know, as do you, that spreading appreciation to anyone within earshot, is amazing and totally reciprocal. And, as Abers, we have become Gold Medalist Appreciators. So now, I want to turn our attention and focus on being a receiver, a genius receiver, an unabashed receiver, a receiver extraordinaire!

I read this wonderful book a few years back by Annie Sprinkle on Tantric Sex. The section that affected me the most, was on giving and receiving. We are amazing givers, it comes easily and mostly it averts the attention from ourselves. Some of us find it difficult to receive the accolades we so richly deserve, the compliments, the atta-girl/atta-boy shot in the arm. When Annie spoke of giving and receiving, she was referring to the sexual union, and how we are not as comfortable in the role of a receiver. I realized that I can fall into that category – and have since put into practice her brilliant suggestion to become a genius receiver. Here’s the cool part – not only will your sex life improve dramatically, but also that of your partner. As givers, we can feel it when someone is not completely relaxed and comfortable, so, when the giver feels you surrender into unabashed receiving, it becomes extremely gratifying for both partners. Yummy squared…..

Now that we’ve got our sex lives percolating, let me ask you a question. How do you receive compliments? Do you allow them to wash over you like the wave of love they are meant to be? Or are you the great deflector, throwing the compliment back at the issuer with caveats added, yea buts, you look great too’s, etc.? I thought so, it’s really a pandemic – this habit of downplaying our gifts, our grandeur, our nobility. Well, you know what I have to say about that – Enough Already! Or in the words of Abe – Just Stop It! That type of behavior is beneath your station – you are a God for Christmas sake. You know what makes Gods, Gods? I’ll tell you, they are not humble about it! No sir – they strut their stuff with their heads held high. They have a Knowing, not an out-of-the-Vortex, egotistical, Cock of The Walk thing, but a Divine Knowing! There is a HUGE difference. You can see it in their eyes, their mien, the way they carry themselves – the feeling of I AM WORTHY literally pulsates off of them.

So Dearest of All Friends, what do you say we make this International Receiver’s Day? Let’s receive everything around us as though it was made for our pleasure, our excitement, our basking, our delight, our entertainment, our self-indulgence – because it was and is!!!!

Self-love is often the most challenging to realize. It’s so darn easy to love others, to appreciate their gifts, to espouse our love of their majesty and might. Let’s take today, and each day forward, and begin to appreciate all that we are; The Leading Most Extension of Source in Human Form, who has made a commitment to love herself, to like himself, to appreciate her gifts, and to cheer himself on. After all, who is more worthy than You and me of this? No one. And why the heck wouldn’t we take the time to sooth our own souls, to caress our own hearts, to bask in our own goodness?

I’m a righteous giver, got that one covered. Now, I want to become the best receiver in the Universe. It isn’t a secret that I Love Loving all of you; and now, from this moment forward, I am going to Love Loving Me too!

In Love, Always~*

Greetings Luscious Ones! Had a thought or two I wanted to share with you on this fine day, and it’s all around Harmonics; The Harmonics of Life, the Harmonics of Living, the Harmonics of Joy and the bounty that a Life of Harmonics brings to those, who vibrate in this Arena of Eternal Knowing and Blessings. There is an Energy that makes up a home, a family unit, a group of friends, a group of dancers, this delicious, social platform, in which we all frolic and play. The Energy that I uncover and unleash on these pages, is a direct extension of my heart and, how I am feeling. It cannot be anything less or more, as I am the tuner of my vibration; and, as such, the piano can only be tuned to the degree that the tuner is an adept at the process.

So Darlings of Love & Light, let’s Tune Up & Up & Up today. Let’s Up-Level our Pitch, our Energetic Tone; let’s flow ever forward, around obstacles and unnerving thoughts, pivoting when a thought that doesn’t serve surfaces; let’s direct our gaze toward the stars, our new and improved vantage point; let’s let nothing get in the way of our Exquisite Expansion; allowing our coalesced energy of joy and abandon to release a Chorus of Harmonic Resonance that undulates across the Omniverse – welcoming, encouraging, willing everyone within vibrational earshot to come and play with us – The Leading-Edge Most Extension of Source in The Universe!

Tag – You’re So It~*

So Darlings of The Omniverse -had to share these thoughts with you!  This is my form of a Tweet!~*

Appreciation – the Red Phone to Source has something to say:

Use me early and often. Take me with you wherever you roam. Throw me about the room – like party confetti! Take me out and parade me around, wave me over your head! Share me with strangers, lovers, kitties, kids. Dress me in sparkles, spangles and high, high hee

ls! Cast a spot light on me, and throw shadows of my largess on the wall. Open your heart and let me spill out on the floor – I will make friends easily. Never, ever leave home without me – it just wouldn’t be as much fun for either of US!Hey you crazy Abers – my delicious friend Appreciation and I want to tell you how much we love and appreciate all of you on this fine day! Love, love and more sideways, liquid, juicy love!!!! ~*

Darlings of The Omniverse! I am filled up and brimming over with Love and Appreciation for you today! So much so, that I just had to share. Appreciation is calling to me – she is such a party girl – always wants to be out on the town, being heard and shared. And, who am I to say no? Does she ever disappoint? Never! Does she ever become too much? Never! Does she ever not deliver more than originally promised? Never! And Why not? Because that’s her inherent nature – she just can’t be less than who she was meant to be! She is the direct conduit to Source. She is the Red Phone to Knowing and Love. She is the bullet train into Source’s Soul. She is the highest decorated of our Emotions. She is gentle and yet brazen. She is delightful and brash; she is bold and sometimes a bit shy. She is childlike in her innocence. She is madd with love, crazy with love, adorned with love, over-the-moon with love. Her’s is the most efficient delivery system the Universe has ever devised to get the word out – to spread joy – to bring love into the moment!

And she has a two-fold purpose – one you might yet not be familiar with. She is reciprocal. That’s right – what you let fly, let loose, let pour from your heart and lips, comes back to you and not only does it return – like a boomerang – but it arrives festooned with more sparkles, more abundance, more love, more light, more joy, more, more, more! She’s just that way – love goes out with wings, on her flight plan from your heart to another’s, and when she returns to you, in the nano second it took for her to do her job and come home to mama; she is brighter, more luminescent, better dressed, wearing higher heels and showing more decolletage :-), she’s saucier, mightier, happier, clearer, she’s love squared, she’s turbo charged and she lands straight into your heart – amping up your life, your Love Moment. And then, this energetic sonic boom, becomes your fuel; as you move forward into the next love moment, and the next, and the next.

Because, Dear Delicious Ones – we all know that this Life is a string of moments, much like a sting of pearls and if we’re doing it right, if we’re living like the Gods We Are, our pearls have to be wrapped around our heads several times, so we don’t trip on them, after a lengthy day of Loving! And of course, we all have those days where we only have a pearl or two dangling from our throats – no matter, make a pair of stud earings from those and move on, because we always have tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, to glorify our love! This game never ends, these love moments are always available to us. We the tenacious, righteous, delicious Co-Creators dancing on the Leading-Edge of thought.

Can you feel how important YOU are to all things? Are you clear that you playing here, you appreciating, you applauding You, is what makes the Universe explode in quasars of love and light? That the Gods sing songs of your majesty and might? That every in take of breath, tinged with love and appreciation, expands the boundaries of this boundary-less Universe? Can you believe it? We’ve all felt small before – but that was because we had cut ourselves off from our largess! WE ARE ANYTHING BUT SMALL! We are the baddest asses in the Universe and it’s time we took out our best party outfit and began strutting about the place. It’s time we cast off the cloak of unworthiness and replaced it with a Cape of Swarovfski Crystals so that anyone gazing upon our beauty, would have to wear shades! It’s over due this self-love, this fete of self-appreciation. Really – screw being humble, being less than, being nothing short of all that you are. Because, you know why that NEVER works? As Abe says, you can’t get sad enough to help those that are sad; you can’t be poor enough to help the poor; and you can’t get downtrodden enough to help the downtrodden. If it is in your blood and bone to serve up and dish out the Love, as it must be, we are God’s of Love and Light after all – then get your party on! Become free with yourself. Allow yourself to dance on the head of a pin and revel in it! Because the more you Know you’re the coolest of the cool – the more you and those around you, will benefit! Heck – the world will benefit! The Universe will benefit!

So, when someone queries as to your occupation, what you do all day and night – tell them this! I am the Arbiter of Love and Appreciation in The Universe. My happiness has a direct correlation to every aspect of my life; therefore, I give it my full and complete attention. I do nothing, NOTHING that will keep me from aligning with the broader, richer, juicier part of all that I am. I am God – I am Knowing – I am the furthest most extension of source displaying herself in the Universe, I am God playing at humanity, I am invincable. And, all this before my first cup of coffee………. and what is it you said you do?

That ought to quiet the nay-sayers! And, if not – who gives a fig! I used to wonder what to say to the folks that live in the real world of poverty, crime and pollsters – now I delight in giving my version of life to them. And, when their eyes cloud over – I just smile, because I know how good I feel, I know how good my life feels, I know how deep and deliriously fecund my relationships are! These things I know – and the only person that can rob me of feeling delightful is me!

So, Darlings of All That You See and Meet – I must be off – off to dance with the Gods at one of my favorite venues in Oakland. Ready to take my bad self on to that dance floor and shake what my Mama gave me for all, or none to see! Doesn’t matter, because I know how good I feel! I am sending you tankers filled with love and appreciation. Because if there was no You, how could there be a Me? If I didn’t have you to bounce off of, to Love, to Appreciate – how would I know I am even here. Thanks for playing with me – tag your it!





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