Category: Expansion


Ex·pan·sion (ikˈspanSHən)noun. The action of becoming larger or more extensive.

Creator, you do realize that anytime you are feeling negative emotion it is the result of one thing and one thing only…

YOU HAVE EXPANDED BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AND ARE NOT ALLOWING YOURSELF TO CATCH UP! 

Really it’s as easy and simple as that. Sure you can give a myriad of labels to that negative emotion: anger, frustration, fear, sadness, depression, betrayal, but when you boil it all down it’s you, the Human you, keeping yourself from savoring the expansion that You have created and that your Inner Being is being, relishing, dancing in, touting, and celebrating while you stay on the side lines lamenting.

First, its all cool no matter where you are, enabling your resistance or eagerly moving forward. But really Creator is that where you want to be, stuck and feeling shitty while the rest of Non-Physical is cashing in on your rockets of Desires and Expansion? 

Thanks to our brilliant Teachers’ Abraham, We Now Know way too much about how this life game works to keep perpetuating old habits that no longer serve. We are no longer neophytes and therefore cannot hide behind ignorance. Remember we continue to create no matter where we are on The Emotional Scale, in the pooh or flying high; it’s Deliberate Creation that separates the wheat from the chaff, the serfs from the Gods, and The Knowing from the uninformed. 

So when next you find yourself below the equator of emotions fret not, it’s something as simple as you not catching up. No need to pronounce it anything bigger because it’s not and it’s easily rectified. You Creator are a Vibrational Colossus, isn’t it time for you to step In and Up into those vibrational shoes and go stomping about town? I’m thinkin’ Hell to the Yea it is!!

CTS, LAD Airport to Romania PicCalling all parents… We know, more than words can convey, a Mighty Love; that of a parent for a child. I raised the amazing kid in this photo, Lily Anne Davis, with The Teachings of Abraham. Actually let me rephrase, I raised myself to new levels of Focus, Consciousness, Joy, and Creativity through these Teachings. The result being, I backed way up from inserting my beliefs and opinions into her life. Rather, I lovingly Facilitated her True North. After all, Only She Knows what her passions and desires are because, they are hers, not mine!

As a parent, It Is Imperative that we remove our children’s age from the equation and cease illogically assessing how much they Know by the silly self-aggrandizing metric of, “I got here first; therefore, I know more than you do.” Or, “I Know what’s better for you than you do for yourself.” And similar outdated, antediluvian thought patterns that don’t serve us.

Respect!! That’s what our children deserve and crave, just like the rest of us! By lovingly backing off and only intervening when appropriate, I have had the Divine Pleasure of “raising” one of the most self-assured, happy, joyful, funny, creative, successful, focused, self-centered kids on the planet. Her self-assuredness is a thing of beauty. Something that the majority of adults I know don’t even possess!

Lily decided months ago that she wanted to do something groovy cool for her 18th Birthday. Her choice was to take part in an archeological dig in Romania and turn 18 there, while experiencing a passion that she has formerly only read and dreamed about. The result, yesterday her dad (my ex-husband and still friend), my boyfriend (whom she loving refers to as her step-father), and I, put this Amazing Human, our kid, on a Lufthansa flight for a 15 hour journey bound for the other side of the planet, solo!!

As you might surmise, it was a day of running through a host of emotions! And although my daughter was/is embarking on this incredible journey, I don’t harbor any fear or trepidation about her successfully navigating every phase of this experience. I Know that She Knows, how to use her Feelings and Inspiration to guide her! I Know that She Knows, Source is her Wing Man and she can NEVER GET IT WRONG!

So my darlings, as I close out this missive, I received a Text from Lily, The Grand Adventuress, announcing her arrival in The Eastern European Country of Romania. Gods I am proud of her, and me, and her 2 dads, for lovingly allowing her The Freedom to unabashedly explore the terrain of her life. Wow! The Continuum of Growth and Expansion is a sweet, sweet ride. Up, up, and away Creator…✈️~*

 

shhh

 

Greetings Creator, I wanted to let you in on a 30 Day Challenge that my bestest friend Patty and I have recently embarked on. Ready? Set? Go…..

NO MORE NEGATIVE BLAH BLAH ISSUING FORTH FROM OUR MOUTHS (OR OUR FINGERS, think texting, FB, and the like) FOR 30 DAMN DAYS!!!!

My girl and I did this challenge when we were just starting out with The Teachings of Abraham, and it changed our lives, COMPLETELY! The Universe just couldn’t stop raining down cool stuff upon us and we couldn’t stop appreciating and dancing in the effulgence of the juicy space that is created when negativity is ceased!

So, here are the tools you need – Awareness, Vigiliance, Consistancy and A Sense of Humor. We all have those right? Exactly. So, how do you handle the situations that are negative?

1. Walk away
2. Hit end on your phone
3. Unfollow that person that brings that negative stuff to your doorstep
4. Say, “Wow” or “OK” – they are both your friends and then be silent.
5. Swallow, swallow and then, swallow some more.
6. If your’e a smoker, take a drag of whatever you’re smoking and allow the moment to pass.
7. If you’re drinking something, keep sipping and swallowing.
8. Tell ’em you don’t speak The English! LOL

I’m not even kidding here when I say that this wee bit of personal observance will serve to bring you more joy, more space to play and create like never before, more uplifting thoughts and people, more of what makes your toes curl!

I’m on day 3 and I have been in a place of such grace for these last two days. It’s as though I’m on vacation from that which doesn’t serve. Hey, it’s never a bad idea to revisit the basics, especially since inculcating these Abe Teachings into our life is a practice; a daily practice, sometimes hourly and sometimes were hanging in there minute by minute.!

Abe is constantly telling us that the key to living lives of freedom, growth and joy is all in the ALLOWING! And you can’t Allow when your spouting or writing smack! Ain’t gonna happen! Conversely, designing this fecund space of Allowing by ceasing negative talk, creates a mighty landing field of ALLOWING! Now The Universe has somewhere to touch down and dispense all the Krazy Kool Stuff you’ve been dreaming of creating and doing!

So, who’s in? After all it’s a lot more fun when we all play and expand together…~*

 

a smooth sea

Creator, I had a whole lot of whoppin’ contrast and grand realizations this past Friday Night, that I want to share with you! Here’s some not so deep background, to give my story context:

My love Jason and I, have taken over the stewardship of a weekly dance in Berkeley CA. As with any new project, it is front end loaded with much “to-do’s” and reality based work and tasks that must be completed. Over the course of these last 3 months, we have artfully managed to remain in alignment and flourish with the process, a majority of the time. Good on us, right? And, we have seen where we get “hung up” with old habitual, knee-jerk reactions, and subsequently, turned these moments around, pivoting our faces turned towards the shining sun of knowing. Then, when the dust settled, laughing at ourselves and our old habits of thought, and at how quickly we jettison what doesn’t work for us, as we up-level those contrasting moments, into moments of clarity.

Alright, you have the preamble, now on the latest revelation. Let’s do it Abe Style (what would formerly been referred to as the Socratic Method, was Socrates an early Aber? Hmmmm…) of Q&A:

Do you believe that we came here to expand and create? I certainly do.

And, do you believe that we would want and are consistently asking The Universe to provide us with the quickest and easiest route to said expansion and creation? Yesirree, I do.

And, do you believe that The Universe can and will heap upon you a whole whoppin’ dose of contrast, over the course of the evening because:

A. It’s what you desire.
B. You can handle it. And
C. It’s the quickest and most effective way to keep the trajectory of your desire moving forward, by offloading/fine-tuning “in bulk” what is necessary to make your creation big, bigger, biggest energetically and in terms of manifestation?

Yes, Yes, Yes, I do!

Well my darlings, this is ex-fucking-actly what happened to us on Friday Night. What could go “wrong” did. What wasn’t working, REALLY wasn’t working, in heels and dancing backwards. But, but, but – we had the perfect people present at the perfect time to handle a few “mishaps” that showed up. We had solutions present themselves before the problem manifested, so when they did, it was handled efficiently, safely and with aplomb. And then, Jason and I had, in the aftermath, the GRAND OPPORTUNITY to sift through the evening, taking each incident apart one by one, and deciding there and then, how we want to progress forward.

In other words, we got to fine-tune, cull, separate the wheat from the chaff, on a whole host of issues at once, instead of piece meal over the course of who knows how long. Because guess what? We are NOT here to create in the slow lane, who has the time or inclination? Not I, because that is not who WE are! We are GODS (You and I) and as such, isn’t it about damn time we stepped into our Super-Suit-Of-Knowing as we get this show on the proverbial road of limitless possibilities?

And, doesn’t it make perfect sense that everything would show up at once, giving us the grand opportunity to change it up, STAT? To Up-level immediately, thereby making way for more creativity and expansion? Hell-To-The-Yea it is!

So Creator, next time you find yourself facing a contrasting moment, or string of them, how about this for a thought, “YOU asked for it.”

Excuse me? I asked for it?

That’s right, you asked for it, and The Universe (you’re Larger Aspect) KNOWS you can handle it; all the while keeping your momentum moving forward, toward all you desire and more. And, why not take it all in bulk (think Costco), so that you can energetically clean house on a larger scale, sweeping clean the slate, and starting from a new energetic level and Point of Attraction? 

HAHAHA, doesn’t that make perfect sense? And, isn’t it funny that Contrast, what was formerly “the enemy,” we can now embrace as our Partner, our cooperative component, our co-creative catalyst in this life’s journey?

I just love The Teachings of Abraham, which is exactly why I began this blog, and my Abraham Hicks & You page on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/abrahamhicksandyou/), so that You and I together, could herald our triumphs and clarity. So that we could see this life’s experience for what it is; one of expansion, not one of contraction. So that we could use the brilliant tools that our Teachers have lovingly given us, to grease the skids of our Creative Process; thereby making ALL SITUATIONS; the good, the bad, and the ugly, useful in our expansion and alignment process.

I’m off now, to see what this day has in store for me! To take it all in, to inhale the contrast, and exhale the solutions. To not miss a step or a beat, as I skip down the lane of Unlimited, Sexy, Unbridled, Passion Filled Moments! Oh, the sweet joy of another Success, Me Lining Up With Me, Co-Creation at Its Best~*

sexy red lips

 

OK Creator, today I want to play with you on the topic of Self-Love and Orgasm. It has come to my attention that many of my Homies who are currently without a lover, have forfeited the joy of self-pleasuring because somehow there is the mind set that has you waiting for a partner in order to achieve ecstasy. Balderdash!!!

Listen, I know from first hand experience, if you desire a lover in your bed; then loving yourself physically, creates a fertile and fecund playground of expression and expansion that will speed up the process and, you’ll be having a ton of fun in the meantime.

When I left my husband a few years ago, I was overdue for a sexual upgrade and I wasted no time in achieving this. For the first time in years!!!!! my daughter was away from me for a few days at a time, so that I could just chill, do me, and I mean REALLY DO ME!! I re-ignited the embers that were my sensual side to such a fever pitch, that I had to run home at times to pleasure myself. You might say I was making up for lost time, LOL.

I created an atmosphere conducive to loving myself; I played sexy music, had candles burning, smoked a bit of reefer to allow more flow, bought fun toys, lingerie, the works. I didn’t want a lover at the time, I wanted to discover ME! to uncover ME! to uncork ME! to unleash ME! and that’s exactly what I did.

The effulgence that infused me from this delightful self-love, spilled out into all areas of my life. I FELT sexier, I looked sexier, I walked with a swish to my hips as though saying to the world, “Don’t you just wish you could have a taste of this?”

I also became a walking pheromone, men and women were drawn to me like magnets – I had guys screaming at me on the highway for my phone number (I gave it to them and had some fun dates); men in the grocery store followed me from isle to isle, one even scored my number in the produce section and became my dating partner for a few months. Everywhere I went, I was trailed by sexy humans.

So here’s the upshot… You want Alignment? Have an orgasm. You want to build momentum? Have another orgasm. You want to attract juicy situations/people into your life? Have a delicious go at YOU! Take that body out for a test drive, check out the parts that you haven’t visited for a while, realize that you have this incredible source of pleasure at your fingertips just waiting to be recognized and set free.

I’ll tell you what I tell my teenage daughter, “It only takes one to make a party!”

Isn’t it Time to get it TUNED IN, TAPPED IN, AND TURNED ON Creator?

Yea, that’s what I thought~*

shopkeeper Istanbul bazaar

 

Greetings Creator, want to play a word game with me? Good, the Word of The Day is CONTRAST. This word, along with Allow, Alignment, and Vortex, is one of the most predominant in our Teachings of Abraham Lexicon. No matter how Abe tries to spin it, Contrast just seems to invoke a negative connotation, e.g, “I had some whopping Contrast today, but I made it through in one piece.” LOL!

This feeling of resistance lead me to dig a little deeper into the etymology of Contrast and I found that it’s roots are Latin, contra = ‘against’ + stare ‘stand.’ Hmmm. Not exactly uplifting.

My next stop was to check into synonyms that one might use in it’s place, and here’s the first 4 that popped up:

CONTRAST = comparison, contradiction, disagreement, disparity.

While they are all not completely negative, CONTRAST and her sister words, don’t engender a feeling of fun or ease. So it feels like it’s time for an upgrade. Why not turn this whole action of Contrast around by substituting a word that feels more uplifting? My favorite? CHOICE!!!! And here are some synonyms that go with my NEW Word of The Day:

CHOICE = alternative, decision, election, favorite, opportunity, option, preference, variety!

Don’t these words feel better, freer, more expansive, fun? They actually spell out what it is we’re doing here as Deliberate Creators:

“Each moment, of each hour, of each day we are shown oodles of ALTERNATIVES, in order that we might make our highest and best DECISIONS, by ELECTING our FAVORITE CHOICE, giving us tons of OPPORTUNITIES and OPTIONS to streamline our PREFERENCES through the offering of VARIETY!”

Wow! Now THAT feels really, really good to me. The Universe is constantly offering us CHOICES and when I think of it like that, there is NEVER a downside. Contrast on the other hand, has a bit of resistance attached and I believe keeps us turning toward what we don’t want longer than suits us.

Without further ado, I would like to introduce you to my Universal Shop Keeper, Ibrahim. He delights in showing me choices, variety, options. His sole job is to present me with opportunities, so that I may CHOOSE what are the highest and best DECISIONS for me.

In the morning, even before I open my eyes, I can feel him nudging me awake with these words, “Creatrix, I have a whole new marketplace of variety to show you today. Won’t you get up now so that I can surprise and delight you?”

Here I come Ibrahim…. Can’t jump out of bed fast enough to sift and sort my way through the unending, expansive, creative choices The Universe is offering up FOR ME!

Genius Creator, want to meet me at the nearest Bazaar? We will shop til we drop, touching all the fabulous fabrics, smelling the spices, sipping the coffee, rolling about on the sumptuous carpets. Won’t it just be too much? Yes, indeed. That’s what a life of Choice does for you~*

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