Category: Contrast


Morning Creator, here’s a little “Pow, right in da kissah” to go with your morning coffee. You know why I love this quote? Because it puts the onus for my feelings on me, right where they belong. 

Remember it’s NEVER about the other guy, it’s about your reaction to the other guy, always. And the best part is, you can change how you feel/react about anything by changing your habitual thoughts and attitude. While conversely, you will NEVER successfully change another person. 

So when you feel hurt, get pissed, or react in a negative way toward a fellow human or situation remember, this is a golden opportunity to enact a personal upgrade, lay new pipes, and create new habits that serve. Listen, reacting is a knee jerk response, but not giving a shit and rolling with life, now that’s how The Gods Play! Haha. See you on Mt. Olympus…😎~*

Most of us were brought up with the misguided notion that we should please others before ourselves, that we should take action when not in alignment (usually to please others), and then to beat ourselves up when we fail to please or fall short of another’s expectations. Well I am happy to declare that those days are over, thanks to The Teachings of Abraham! 

The societal definition of Procrastination serves as the perfect example. Let’s begin with Merrium Webster:

“Pro·cras·ti·nate\prə-ˈkras-tə-ˌnāt, prō-\
: to be slow or late about doing something that should be done : to delay doing something until a later time because you do not want to do it, because you are lazy, etc.”

In other words, if you don’t do what you “should” do, what has been asked of you, either by yourself (a project/passion that you want to participate in) or by another person, you can now consider yourself an unmotivated looser who is lazy! Wow! A bit harsh wouldn’t you say? And you wonder why you beat yourself up? You were taught to, and they did a good job. But now we can throw all that antediluvian bullshit out in the trash where it belongs. 

Let’s start now with Abraham’s Definition of Procrastination: 

“Procrastination is the wisdom to not try to force something that you’re not vibrationally ready for!” 

Fuck yes! It’s not that I’m a looser, it’s that I’m not aligned and therefore feel stuck. Hmmm. So, if I do the energetic work of Aligning, then take action on the heels of that momentum, I will not only feel better (the super bonus) as I’ve become up to speed with my Broader Aspect, but I’ll Master this assigned task with genius, creativity, ease, flow, wisdom, and clarity as I align and flow The Energy That Creates Worlds!!

Yup, that’s it! You got it. Now a quick primer to the “How do I align with something that I feel stuck about?” question. 

We know that you can’t pivot against the stream of feeling stuck to feeling good instantly, there’s too much momentum built up on the negative side; however, you can almost instantly conjure up relief by going general. Follow me here as I do the Going General Practice on something that has been vexing me: 

It’s ok that this doesn’t feel like a good time. I am happy to work towards a feeling of alignment before taking action. I want the joy of creating through alignment and I am willing to do the vibrational work to attain that joy. I really love it when I feel good about working on projects. It is so satisfying to flow with creativity. The reason I’m not flowing now is that I have to get up to speed with the Genius that is me! My Genius isn’t going anywhere, she is eagerly anticipating my return to her vibrational vicinity and lobbing clues at me (paths of least resistance) everywhere I turn. This contrast has served me, as now I know it’s not my fault or a character defect that has me vexed, it’s just a question of alignment. I’m really good at finding my sure footedness, I’ve done it countless times before. It feels good remembering my successes at turning my thoughts and beliefs to those that serve. It feels good knowing I’m on the right path always, and I love the feeling that I’m going to take a wicked bounce from this contrast. I don’t have to do anything right now this red hot minute, I can relax in the knowing that when I am aligned, the information and inspiration will flow like red hot lava! And on, and on, and on! 

Yup, Creator, that’s how we do it here on The Leading Most Edge of Thought in The Whole Darn Universe! Until next time. Namaste Homies…~*

My inspired thought and action to create this post came from this brilliant video.  Click on the link, sit back, and feel the relief and knowing flow: Abraham-Hicks: Why Do I Procrastinate?

creator, what are you broadcastingGreetings Creator! Yesterday I heard a clip from the Cancun Land Cruise that caused me to stop and take pause. In my world, this means that my Posse of Dead Geniuses are whispering in my ear, “Listen up gurl, this ones for you!” Here’s the gist…

There were two hot seaters back to back, the first a fellow with chronic back pain, although his life was cherry in every other way. And the second man experiencing what he referred to as being “blindsided” by funky experiences/people when all else in his life is going really well.

Abe’s answer to both of these men was the same, the upshot…

We seem to think, us fabulous humans, that it’s the big stuff that gives us pain or hurtles us out of da V and across galaxies, but it’s not! It’s actually the small stuff; Our Thoughts, our Consistent Negative Thoughts, that we unconsciously entertain all throughout the day! By continuously defaulting to this negative place, these low hanging vibes have built up a head o’ steam/momentum, which then ATTRACTS TO US, negative manifestations, people, and events into our experience.

Here’s the question Abe wants us to consistently ask ourselves…

CREATOR, WHAT ARE YOU BROADCASTING?

We know that as Energetic Being’s we are Transmitters and Receivers of Energy, right? And we Know that The Universe – The Law of Attraction/LOA – responds to our Now Vibration (spoken or not), right? So we can logically conclude, that even if we are star pupils of a daily meditation practice, appreciating, list of positive aspects, etc., that entertaining any negative thoughts, will unfavorably impact our lives, manifesting in a variety of unsavory ways, right?

So here’s the easy breezy answer! Vigilance my darlings, that’s it! That’s all it takes! Become Aware of those thoughts, and pivot like the G you are before they gather any momentum (before 17 seconds). I love synonyms, so allow me to share a few that are pertinent here:

BE Attentive, alert, on the look out, on your energetic toes, sharp, on it, observant, keep your energetic eyes peeled, notice how you feel, check in, self-regulate, emotionally inquire…

In other words Creator, be your own Energetic GateKeeper! It’s up to you to become hyper-aware and notice the moment you become negative in thought, word, or deed! Nothing just happens; We Students and Teachers of The Teachings of Abraham, Know This to be Truth (as unpalatable as this might seem to us at times, admitting we ATTRACTED this moment or sequence of moments, through our sloppy focus and thinking!). Again, THE ENERGY THAT YOU BROADCAST, either consciously or unconsciously, CALLS TO YOU/ ATTRACTS THE NEGATIVE ENERGY THAT BECOMES YOUR PURVIEW! In other words, It’s Always An Inside Job! It is Law!

I’ve been enjoying a life of synchronicity this past two months surrounding an inspired move that I am undertaking from Danville, California to Rosarito, Baja, Mexico, that can only be described as superfluous, exceptional, without par! So what the hell have I been doing that threw me down, down, down, into the dark passages and Circles of Dante’s Inferno? Well, let me tell you, cause that’s how I do it, full fucking transparency, I became emotionally intrigued and involved with Politics!! Oh Gods, it’s almost embarrassing to admit, even to My Tribe.

7 years ago I tuned out, on advice from a fellow Aber, and have never been happier not knowing what the hell was going on. But then Bernie Sanders came around. And me? I’m a Manhattan girl and he’s a sweet, honest, thoughtful, engaged Jewish man from Brooklyn. And well, I got hope!! And along with that hope I got a ton of other shit, like negativity and hate mongering the likes of which, I don’t remember ever having heard/ felt before.

Clearly, I’m not evolved enough to separate the wheat from the chaff! LOL. I thought I could dip my toe in there for a little while and just bask in Bernie’s message, which appeals to me a lot, and leave the rest on the side of the road, where it belonged. But lo and behold, I’m human and I became transfixed like a moth to a flame!

So hear me now fellow Aber’s as I proclaim that from this moment forward, now and forever more, I will never, never, never ever, never fucking ever, ever never, become engaged in politics or news events again! I am dusting off my rose-colored glasses, and fully embracing my PollyAnna approach to this life, my see no evil, hear no evil, feel no evil stance in this world! I stand with my legs astride and my arms open wide, high atop Mount Olympus with my fellow Gods and Goddesses as I chant our Mantra, All is Well, All is Well, All Is Always, Eternally Well!

I can’t change anything when I’m slogging it out down in the trenches. If I want to be happy and highflying and wish this state of Well-Being For All Being’s on this planet, and I do, then my work is to stay a loft, to stay floating downstream while entertaining only those thoughts which are pleasant and uplifting.

Wow! I feel better already. So yeah this might be a long post, but who else can I be this honest with, if not you, my Comrades of Knowing? My Appreciation for the contrast I have recently enjoyed (and I don’t use that word lightly), knows no bounds. Because once again, I have taken a Bounce that has landed me firmly, lovingly, and without hesitation, in the driver seat of my own luscious life! Tuning Out and Tuning Up, Up, and Away my delightful Homies! You feel me? I so Know you do…😎~*

I've learned so much from my mistakes...

We in Abe Land don’t refer to our Choices as mistakes; rather, we choose Contrast to define the vicissitudes in our life. A much better vibe, don’t you think? Mistakes intimate that we’re doing something wrong, but we know that we can’t get it wrong, and that’s why we choose the word Contrast.

So Creator, how about you get yourself out there in the world today, make blunders, trip over yourself, fall down, mix it up, screw up, choose the wrong door, ’cause ALL DOORS, ALL ROADS, ALL CHOICES serve us mightily. Let yourself off da hook. Have a good laugh when you totally screw the pooch and then, dust yourself off and get back into the ring.

But, whatever the hell you do, don’t play it safe! What fun is there in that? Aren’t the funniest of stories always around our giant mishaps? Yes! And why is that? Because we so Know that All Is Well, that we can allow ourselves the joy and freedom to reach beyond our ken, sometimes resulting in funny life blunders, that’s why.

I’m off now to turn up the heat on my Pot of Life, to give it a mighty stir and see what I can spice up, up, up today!! If all goes as planned, It’s gonna be a hot, spicy, sinus clearing, kinda day! After all, if the choice is a saltine cracker life or a jalapeño life, I’m grabbing that hot pepper and dancing out the door!! Hasta Luego Mis Amigos…😎~*

What defines us is not how we fall

I’m in the midst of packing up my home of 12 years for an out of country move. There’s stuff everywhere, which is fun for me (Ms. Neat and Tidy) to give up control of the uncontrollable, whilst in this juicy transition.

Yesterday, while fetching my trusty “Dirt Devil” and winding my way through all manner of detritus, my foot got tangled in an extension cord that had been left on the floor (by me haha days earlier!). Unable to stop my trajectory forward, I went ass over tit, down, onto the kitchen floor! Bamn.

The noise and my loudly proclaimed verbal reaction of “Fuck” after slamming into the floor, brought my daughter and boyfriend running. The result, I gave myself some righteous bumps and bruises on my wrist, forearms, left hip and shin; only worthy of some ice bags, Aleve, and a meditation to calm my central nervous system.

This morning I awoke and sprung out of bed. Did my daily meditation practice and rolled out my mat to practice the art of yoga, Brian Kest Style. Here’s the cool thing I want to report, I don’t hurt at all! Not anywhere. No pulled muscles, torn ligaments or battered bones! Other than the colorful remnants of the mishap that dot my body like medals of honor, I’m 100% perfectly perfect.

My body, mind, breath and I flowed through the practice with ease and equanimity. And then it dawned on me, as though a distant memory, “I got the shit kicked out of me yesterday and today, I feel like a $1,000,000 bucks!! Haha!

The Practice of Yoga is most certainly, without a shadow of a doubt to this gal anyway, the gift that keeps on giving!! Yay for us. Yay for our strength, our resiliency, our ability to bend and not break, to loose ourselves in the practice of meditation. To live, walk, stumble, fall, pick ourselves up, laugh at ourselves, and do it all over again!

Sending big love your way as only those of us who are in tune with our bodies and equanimous nature, can appreciate a story that might seem bad to some, but to us it’s a cause for celebration. Hey Bryan Kest, isn’t it you who says, and I’m paraphrasing… Anyone can fall, but can you fall calmly?”

My answer? Hell to the yes I can! Namaste My Homies…😎~*

NYC Bus

Greetings Darlings, Well I’m on fire today and I had to share, share, share this delicious, new-to-me-technique of boosting up my momentum, my inner fire, my fun with You, my Enchanting Cadre of Co-Creative Geniuses!

It all began yesterday with a wee meme I read; in a nutshell, it was about acknowledging what you dig and leaving the rest behind! We Aber’s know all about this little nugget of info, but then through the course of my day, I took it even farther…

…Why not use these delightful moments of Contrast to boost our energy and fuel our Inner Creativity and Knowing?

Think about it, as Abe constantly reminds us, “Without Contrast There Would Be NO EXPANSION!” That means that CONTRAST wields mucho power! It’s the Energy That Fuels UNIV-FUCKING-VERSAL EXPANSION for Christmas’ Sake! So how about we hop aboard this Rocket Ship of Momentum and use it to our advantage? Rather than just having a Contrasting Moment and using it to Pivot Towards What Feels Good, why don’t we apply an upgrade by Acknowledging and Appreciating Its Presence; thereby giving it more heft and weightiness, and use it to propel ourselves deeper into the V?

If we get into the Divine Habit of Appreciating Contrast when it surfaces, becoming more aware of it; then it becomes our Ally, Our Comrade, Our Buddy. In addition, by acknowledging its place as a Superior Player in our Lives, we become more adept at catching it early and not wallowing in the pooh for even a nano-second!

After using this Booster around Contrast all day yesterday, when I arrived home, I had a moment where I felt resistance come a creepin’ to my back door! The minute I felt it, I had a moment of, “Nooooo! I don’t want you here!” But then, I heard the guidance that My Non-Physical Cadre Of Mighty Helpers downloaded to me, and it wasn’t about using the traffic cop signal of stop! (which we know only invites more of what we don’t want), but rather, to welcome it! Welcome Resistance, has she gone mad? Haha! Perhaps, but I took it as a signal of where I was vibing.  And if we want to keep Vibing at the Level of The Gods, these moments of early detection are our touchstone to a SourceLike Level  of Awareness and Creativity! Rather than get sucked in, we turn it on it’s head!

So I said to that sly visitor known as Resistance, “Wow! I love feeling you. Because by feeling you, it means I am in touch with my emotions, like a Boss. So guess what Ole Man Resistance (sorry fellas, a old worn out cliche I know, but here it works 🙂 ), we are going to add some fuel to your visit. I am going to use YOU as my Booster Into More, More Upliftment, More Understanding of Me, More Intuitive Awareness of Where I Vibe on a moment to moment basis.” And let me tell you, I went Rocketing so deep into My Vortex that it took my breath away! Haha!

I’m a child of The City of Manhattan and growing up there, I used to see adventurous boys “catch a ride” on the back bumper of busses cruising down the street! They were having a ball, and I thought how fun it would be to have the courage to hop aboard and take a ride. Well, NOW I know what that feels like. There are always two busses going by, The One That Takes You Upstream, to The Land of Where Nothing That You Want Resides, and then there’s the one that takes you DownStream, to all your Desires, Hopes, Dreams, Endless Possibilities, Creations, RendezVous, and the like.

So Creator, when next you are visited by Contrast or Resistance, how about you reach out and grab onto the back of da Bus that’s heading your way, toward More! How about you acknowledge this delightful moment of self-awareness where you made the conscious decision to turn this moment around. And then for the capper, how about you say to The Universe, “Hey, Check Me Out!! I so got this! I am a G, I am a God, I have come to this place where I can instantly manifest more through my choices! Oh, and hit the gas, I want to go faster!”

Now that’s what Living, Thriving, Abounding on The Leading-Most Edge of Thought is all about! I am triple darn sure that’s how we thought we’d do this gig before we landed here. We can either let someone else drive our Interstellar Ship/Bus/Vortex, or we can take Control and steer her towards the rising sun, every darn time!

I am taking my leave now, time to go for a walk with my delightful dog and feel all that I can feel about this incredible life on this calm, misty, autumn morning! But, before I go, might I just say that I appreciate you, my cadre of homies, more than words can convey! I LOVE sharing what I am learning, day by day, moment by moment with all of you! It gives me more delight than words can convey! But hey, that’s not going to stop me from trying. All for one and one for all! I am, Constance Todd Smith, over and out…~*

resistance is futile

Greetings Creator, I have some information I’d love to share with you. Lately I have been pondering the purpose of Resistance and why it’s necessary to our Creative Process? What lead me to this Internal Investigation was that I was noticing Resistance, I mean Really noticing it, when it revealed itself in the form of negative emotion. And, truth be told, I had a good deal of it pop up during the course of the day. What? Me? The Happy, Aligned, Leading-Edge Vixen that I am? That’s right!

So, I got on it immediately. I don’t like speed bumps, especially when I’m cruising along at Warp Speed, as they have a tendency to knock me off into a completely different galaxy. I needed to have some clarity around the subject.

What’s a gal to do when she has a question for Abe and there’s isn’t a hot seat and a mike available? Well simple – head over to YouTube and type in what I want to know, in this case: Abraham-Hicks Resistance, et voila, the video I am posting here in the comments section, revealed itself to me. Have a listen, you’re going to dig it.

Allow me to summarize and put my spin on it. First, doing away with Resistance is Futile (Yes, The Borg knew what they were preaching) as it is one of the main ingredients in The Creative Process. IOW – It’s the “what we don’t want” that is sitting right next to the “what we do want,” that is present in all our contrasting moments. And Abe tells us that if Resistance ceased to be, so would expansion and that could never happen.

Hmmm, already I am feeling relief around this topic. It doesn’t feel as heavy or unwieldy; as it’s been brought down into my sphere of influence where I can manage my relationship to it. It doesn’t Happen To Me, its a marker, a litmus test, a directional indicator. By George, I think we’re getting somewhere.

Since we can’t do away with it, we must learn how to manage it. Here’s the plu-perfect formula for us Creators when it comes to managing our resistance: Have Contrast, see two sides of the coin, pick the side that feels good, move on. Next…

Where you and I get hung up is in the picking the positive and leaving behind the negative. Why? Because we are still nursing habits of thought that who knows or cares the provenance of, as we sit in the resistant energy depriving ourselves of good feelings and other juicy manifestations that are ours by birthright! Whereas Source, faced with the Contrasting Moment, has already gone down the road and is playing around in the solution, while we sit depriving ourselves of that solution, because we can’t/won’t move on.

Isn’t now the perfect time to become The Vibrational Equivalent of The Outcome That We Desire, rather than it’s counter-intuitive equivalent? If your answer is yes, then the first step in becoming a Master of Discernment is to understand your Emotional Guidance System. YOU MUST KNOW WHAT EMOTIONS YOUR EMITTING IN ORDER TO START UP-LEVELING YOUR THOUGHTS TO MATCH THE THOUGHTS OF SOURCE.

When I began this odyssey of self-discovery with Abe, I thought I had 2 emotions. I was a New York City kid and the way we rolled was we either loved the idea, or the person, or hated it, period. Who knew that there were a host of other emotions laying in between those two? LOL.

And another huge catalyst to my self-inquiry was that Abraham had chided some hot seaters about their supposed time “In The Vortex” versus their “Out of The Vortex” time. Seems that we like to fool ourselves that we are IN, when in actuality, we’re not. That hit me like a ton of bricks! If I am bullshitting myself, I want to know that too.

So in order to better understand this Amazing Guidance System that is my path to clarity and all I desire, I printed out Abe’s Emotional Guidance Scale from their book, “Ask and It is Given,” and put them everywhere; at my kitchen sink, bathroom mirror, wallet, dashboard of my car, you name it. And then, when I became aware of wanting to identify my feelings, I would sit with the feeling and then look at the paper and see which one resonated with me.

emotional-guidance-scale

This practice served me well, as now I don’t need the paper, it is clear when I am in the vicinity of hope or not. When I am flowing clarity or blame. When I am bipping down the road of Optimism or lugging around boulders of discontent.

And now, armed with this data, I can be my own Teacher. I can feel when something is off and who do I call upon to change how I feel? ME that’s who. As I am the only one who throws resistance in my path. No one else.

The knowledge that I have gleaned today is that Resistance is not the enemy, to the contrary, she’s my friend, my ally, my go to gal when I want to know better what it is I desire. When she lands on my doorstep, I know it. She walks like a storm trooper and takes no quarter! The negative vibrations she throws about cannot be ignored, and so this allows me to pivot toward the sun, toward good feelings and all that I desire.

My hope is that we all become Masters Of Our Lives! Someone asked me the other day how I explain The Teachings of Abraham and I said, “Simple… Identifying and Understanding The Laws of The Universe and Using Them To Our Advantage!” And for today’s lesson on Resistance – It’s understanding our Emotional Guidance System and using it to our advantage.

Game… Set… Match…~*

The Joy In The Journey

Creator are you jiggy, are you clear, are you up to speed with why YOU came to the planet? Do you get that The Fun, The Supreme Satisfaction IS The Journey from the “not having” place to the “Having” Place? The Aligned Place? The Allowing Place?

The Energetic Journey begins when you recognize what isn’t working and turn your attention to what is. And then, VOILA, like magic (although it isn’t LOL), your world becomes filled with color, you feel better, cooler people arrive in your energy field and you say to yourself, “Wow, that thing that was bothering me isn’t anymore! And, what WAS that Thing anyway?”

Yes My Darlings, that’s it, that’s why You and I came… for The Joy of The Journey! For the ride from the not-feeling-good-place to up, up, up and away! So, when you’re down, know that Contrast IS The Catalyst for greatness. It’s the yeast in your dough! After all, we are Gods For Christmas Sake, and, and, and – your power is ALWAYS available to you, except when you focus on what’s not working, or engage in negative talk, and thoughts. Lamenting is not what we are here to do, unless, and this is a big UNLESS, you are poking at it to find The Solution.

If you find that something isn’t going as swimmingly as you would like, then stop thinking about it. Stop talking about it. Stop typing about it! Stop, Stop, Stop! And then, turn your attention to what is working, and milk the heck out of that and feel your vibration begin to ascend, to shift, to up-tick to the realm of higher-vibrational, quality feelings! The MOMENT you begin this process, you become a beacon for extremely groovy shit to come your way; up-leveled feelings, righteous downloads from your non-physical posse and more!!!

Think of it like this… You have a garden in your back yard. One side is filled with weeds, dead grass, and funky, slithering critters that only come out at night. And the other side? Oh, that side is filled with fragrant flowers, humming birds; busy buzzy bees; soft, plush grass; moss so deep you can swim in it…. You get the picture. Now, which side of the garden do you want to give you attention too? Which one do you want to cultivate? To nurture? To show folks that come by for a cup of coffee? Ex-Fucking-Xactly!

My wish is that all of us, all of us, all of us – get this! As this wee bit of knowledge IS The Key To Your Kingdom of personal satisfaction, success, feeling really good and triumph! This is why we came…. I know, that story got a bit lost over time, but you’re here now and you can change on a dime! Isn’t it time to dump the old, flea worn, dank and dusky and put on your best threads and let this life rip for all it’s worth?

I’m so excited about the infinite possibilities that are swirling and twirling, beckoning us to give them our attention, to play with them, to engage with them. They are close as the nose on your face, even closer actually! This is The Work of The Gods, that can ONLY happen from the inside out. Isn’t it time to put on your Big Girl and Big Boy Boots and Step, Skip, Sashay into The Sunshine of Your Life? I’m thinking YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!

Oh, and finally, I thought my love Jason’s, Abraham’s, Esther’s and My song entitled, “Don’t You Just Love Being Physical?” is the plu-perfect accompaniment to this missive of hope and glory! Hit the title above and turn it up loud Creator, as they are talking to you!

To The Infinity and Beyond…~*

P.S. – The quote below is what set me on fire this morning. I got it from one of our FB Abraham-Hick’s & You Members, David Tftu‘s Website, Thoughts Become Things… http://thoughtsfromtheuniverse.com  It’s so much fun to visit any old time and hit the button – Receive Your Thought – that brings up a pertinent quote that’s perfect for you. Another Delightful, Deliberate Avenue for LOA to swoop in and have it’s way with you!

“Are you supposed to reach your pinnacle of creative power and be able to deliberately manifest a material reality completely aligned with your utmost desires overnight? Of course not. You are here to grow into that power, in steps and stages, by going on a journey.

The journey to become your desires by aligning your beliefs with them is the real treasure of human existence. You are here to unfold and expand into full enlightenment of who and what you really are — a part of the quantum field who is learning to more intentionally align her beliefs with her desires so she can contextually create a more pleasing material reality.”

Greg Kuhn

true-confessions

Creator, I have some True Confessions to dish out to you today. I could hardly wait to get home to download the information knocking on my brain, so wanting to be shared.

These past 2 days have been a real eye opener for me. Yesterday I had a wonderful exchange of comments with one of our playmates at my Facebook Page: Abraham Hicks & You. The result? WOW! DID I EVER LEARN A WHOLE HELL OF A LOT ABOUT MYSELF. I came in the front door thinking I was teaching, and left through the back door being taught. Co-Creation at its finest.

And what is the subject of my lesson du jour? JUDGEMENT! That’s right, that 500lb gorilla of blah-blah that sits on my shoulder waiting to open it’s mouth about anything and everything that I deem: unworthy, unsightly, un-what-the-heck-ever, as it enters my purview. What I hadn’t realized until yesterday, is how far I had strayed from my hear-to-fore commitment to ceasing negative thoughts.

I spent these last two days acting as the Hall Monitor of the thoughts streaming through my mind, which enlightened me to my behavior. I noticed my negative reactions to posts, to people’s comments, to drivers, to folks crossing the street. And I am here to tell you, it wasn’t alignment that I was noticing, but rather a tremor in my juicy flow. On the heels of every thought that wasn’t aligned, I could feel the funky emotion that came with it.

The more the negative thoughts flowed, the more the clarity did as well. I came to understand that a whole lotta Wobble exists inside of me, much more than I had realized. That those times when I thought, “How the hell did this happen? How did I fall so far from Vortex-i-ness to basement like emotions, so fast, without warning?” has been asked and now, answered.

It’s the Wobble Creator, that insidious bit of mis-alignment that lives so close to the skin that it can remain undetected; until the desire for Alignment trumps ego, trumps embarrassment, trumps whatever might have been holding me back from acknowledging this unwanted passenger in my thoughts. And feeling these lower, echelon feelings sure as shootin’, isn’t even in the same ballpark, the same zip code, the same Universe, as Unconditional Love.

My interpretation of the definition of Unconditional Love is: The ability to keep aligned no matter where I am, no matter who I am with, no matter what I am seeing, no matter the conditions. IOW, conditions don’t need to be perfect for me to remain in The Vortex.

On my way home, I understood enough of what I am experiencing to talk about it to Jason (my love) and now to you. I explained that uncovering this chink in the flow, is going to make a grand difference in my life. Especially when it comes to SUSTAINED ALIGNMENT AND ALLOWING! Which we all know is the cornerstone and hallmark of Deliberate Creation. It was my conversation with him that tee’d up this missive to you.

The moral of this story? It seems Dearest Playmates, that sometimes our habits are so ingrained, have become such a part of us, that we can’t see them for what they are. It’s not until we pull up and back a bit and become more vigilant in watching our reactions, in noticing when our feelings begin to take that dive south, or when the blah-blah begins to flow. Then and only then, can we make the course change necessary to keep us flowing and blowing downstream, towards all we want and desire.

The process of Deliberate Creation requires our consistent attention. It’s a constant process of delicious fine-tuning, of surgical self-awareness, where once habits are uncovered and re-routed, then and and only then, am I able to discover a new road, a divine pathway, into the realm of Unconditional Love.

From my newest Perch of Knowing, I wish you all wisdom and curiosity into your behavior. The first “WTF am I thinking that for?” might take you a bit by surprise, but the clarity that follows on it’s heels, will take your breath away. Radical Insight – that’s what I have been gifted with today and I wish it for all of you~*

 

a smooth sea

Creator, I had a whole lot of whoppin’ contrast and grand realizations this past Friday Night, that I want to share with you! Here’s some not so deep background, to give my story context:

My love Jason and I, have taken over the stewardship of a weekly dance in Berkeley CA. As with any new project, it is front end loaded with much “to-do’s” and reality based work and tasks that must be completed. Over the course of these last 3 months, we have artfully managed to remain in alignment and flourish with the process, a majority of the time. Good on us, right? And, we have seen where we get “hung up” with old habitual, knee-jerk reactions, and subsequently, turned these moments around, pivoting our faces turned towards the shining sun of knowing. Then, when the dust settled, laughing at ourselves and our old habits of thought, and at how quickly we jettison what doesn’t work for us, as we up-level those contrasting moments, into moments of clarity.

Alright, you have the preamble, now on the latest revelation. Let’s do it Abe Style (what would formerly been referred to as the Socratic Method, was Socrates an early Aber? Hmmmm…) of Q&A:

Do you believe that we came here to expand and create? I certainly do.

And, do you believe that we would want and are consistently asking The Universe to provide us with the quickest and easiest route to said expansion and creation? Yesirree, I do.

And, do you believe that The Universe can and will heap upon you a whole whoppin’ dose of contrast, over the course of the evening because:

A. It’s what you desire.
B. You can handle it. And
C. It’s the quickest and most effective way to keep the trajectory of your desire moving forward, by offloading/fine-tuning “in bulk” what is necessary to make your creation big, bigger, biggest energetically and in terms of manifestation?

Yes, Yes, Yes, I do!

Well my darlings, this is ex-fucking-actly what happened to us on Friday Night. What could go “wrong” did. What wasn’t working, REALLY wasn’t working, in heels and dancing backwards. But, but, but – we had the perfect people present at the perfect time to handle a few “mishaps” that showed up. We had solutions present themselves before the problem manifested, so when they did, it was handled efficiently, safely and with aplomb. And then, Jason and I had, in the aftermath, the GRAND OPPORTUNITY to sift through the evening, taking each incident apart one by one, and deciding there and then, how we want to progress forward.

In other words, we got to fine-tune, cull, separate the wheat from the chaff, on a whole host of issues at once, instead of piece meal over the course of who knows how long. Because guess what? We are NOT here to create in the slow lane, who has the time or inclination? Not I, because that is not who WE are! We are GODS (You and I) and as such, isn’t it about damn time we stepped into our Super-Suit-Of-Knowing as we get this show on the proverbial road of limitless possibilities?

And, doesn’t it make perfect sense that everything would show up at once, giving us the grand opportunity to change it up, STAT? To Up-level immediately, thereby making way for more creativity and expansion? Hell-To-The-Yea it is!

So Creator, next time you find yourself facing a contrasting moment, or string of them, how about this for a thought, “YOU asked for it.”

Excuse me? I asked for it?

That’s right, you asked for it, and The Universe (you’re Larger Aspect) KNOWS you can handle it; all the while keeping your momentum moving forward, toward all you desire and more. And, why not take it all in bulk (think Costco), so that you can energetically clean house on a larger scale, sweeping clean the slate, and starting from a new energetic level and Point of Attraction? 

HAHAHA, doesn’t that make perfect sense? And, isn’t it funny that Contrast, what was formerly “the enemy,” we can now embrace as our Partner, our cooperative component, our co-creative catalyst in this life’s journey?

I just love The Teachings of Abraham, which is exactly why I began this blog, and my Abraham Hicks & You page on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/abrahamhicksandyou/), so that You and I together, could herald our triumphs and clarity. So that we could see this life’s experience for what it is; one of expansion, not one of contraction. So that we could use the brilliant tools that our Teachers have lovingly given us, to grease the skids of our Creative Process; thereby making ALL SITUATIONS; the good, the bad, and the ugly, useful in our expansion and alignment process.

I’m off now, to see what this day has in store for me! To take it all in, to inhale the contrast, and exhale the solutions. To not miss a step or a beat, as I skip down the lane of Unlimited, Sexy, Unbridled, Passion Filled Moments! Oh, the sweet joy of another Success, Me Lining Up With Me, Co-Creation at Its Best~*

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