Category: Parenting


CTS, LAD Airport to Romania PicCalling all parents… We know, more than words can convey, a Mighty Love; that of a parent for a child. I raised the amazing kid in this photo, Lily Anne Davis, with The Teachings of Abraham. Actually let me rephrase, I raised myself to new levels of Focus, Consciousness, Joy, and Creativity through these Teachings. The result being, I backed way up from inserting my beliefs and opinions into her life. Rather, I lovingly Facilitated her True North. After all, Only She Knows what her passions and desires are because, they are hers, not mine!

As a parent, It Is Imperative that we remove our children’s age from the equation and cease illogically assessing how much they Know by the silly self-aggrandizing metric of, “I got here first; therefore, I know more than you do.” Or, “I Know what’s better for you than you do for yourself.” And similar outdated, antediluvian thought patterns that don’t serve us.

Respect!! That’s what our children deserve and crave, just like the rest of us! By lovingly backing off and only intervening when appropriate, I have had the Divine Pleasure of “raising” one of the most self-assured, happy, joyful, funny, creative, successful, focused, self-centered kids on the planet. Her self-assuredness is a thing of beauty. Something that the majority of adults I know don’t even possess!

Lily decided months ago that she wanted to do something groovy cool for her 18th Birthday. Her choice was to take part in an archeological dig in Romania and turn 18 there, while experiencing a passion that she has formerly only read and dreamed about. The result, yesterday her dad (my ex-husband and still friend), my boyfriend (whom she loving refers to as her step-father), and I, put this Amazing Human, our kid, on a Lufthansa flight for a 15 hour journey bound for the other side of the planet, solo!!

As you might surmise, it was a day of running through a host of emotions! And although my daughter was/is embarking on this incredible journey, I don’t harbor any fear or trepidation about her successfully navigating every phase of this experience. I Know that She Knows, how to use her Feelings and Inspiration to guide her! I Know that She Knows, Source is her Wing Man and she can NEVER GET IT WRONG!

So my darlings, as I close out this missive, I received a Text from Lily, The Grand Adventuress, announcing her arrival in The Eastern European Country of Romania. Gods I am proud of her, and me, and her 2 dads, for lovingly allowing her The Freedom to unabashedly explore the terrain of her life. Wow! The Continuum of Growth and Expansion is a sweet, sweet ride. Up, up, and away Creator…✈️~*

 

Life of alignment

Finding The Teachings of Abraham when my daughter Lily was in 1st grade was a win/win for both of us! I was always outta da box anyway, but Abe gave me the tools to sustain my groovy feelings and Allowed Me To Allow My Delightful Kid to flourish in her own, unique way!

When people ask me about parenting, my answer is succinct and never prevaricates, “First and foremost, DO YOU with aplomb! Show your kid what it’s like to be a righteous happy joyful fun interesting curious Creator on the leading edge.”

And then they say, “I asked about parenting and you told me about you.”

And my answer, “Haha, exactly!”

‘Cause what we know in Abe Land is the most effective parenting is teaching by YOUR example! The method of teaching with which most of us are familiar is one way and comes in the form of speeches, dictates, dictums, decrees, and directives and sounds like Charlie Brown’s teacher… blah blah blah ditty blah blah. And guess what? It never, never, never fucking worked.

Rather than a sermon or a soliloquy, show your kids that they have all the tools necessary to be, do, or have whatever they desire by you the parent, living the life of your dreams!

Start with your Alignment first Homies, and then the parenting literally takes care of itself, no fooling…~*

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