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Creator… When you hear a voice inside your head using the words “should” or “can’t” when referring to something you are contemplating, then you know it’s time for a really good laugh! Why? Because now we know that voice is fiction, farcical, and has nothing to do with our Divine Guidance. Rather, it’s some left over detritus from grammar school, or church, or mother’s endless books of rules on decorum, or, or, or, what-the-fuck ever! 

Listen Up! Your Inner Being doesn’t work with rules, regs and bullshit decorum, nor does she/he dictate, naysay, put you down and the like. Those days of listening and taking advise from old habits of thought with no bearing on who you are and even more importantly, WHO YOU HAVE BECOME are, Thank The Gods, Over!! The only voice that is Right & True is the one laced with love, kindness, the one that feels like soothing music, an uplifting melody, compliments, sweet guidance, accolades, atta-boys and atta-girls, cheerleading, inspiration, titillation and oodles of appreciation.

So get out there, try new things, entertain new thoughts, feel new joyful highs! After all, that’s why you and I came to this delicious planet and today, I am celebrating this kind of Freedom for us all…😎~*

sexy red lips

 

OK Creator, today I want to play with you on the topic of Self-Love and Orgasm. It has come to my attention that many of my Homies who are currently without a lover, have forfeited the joy of self-pleasuring because somehow there is the mind set that has you waiting for a partner in order to achieve ecstasy. Balderdash!!!

Listen, I know from first hand experience, if you desire a lover in your bed; then loving yourself physically, creates a fertile and fecund playground of expression and expansion that will speed up the process and, you’ll be having a ton of fun in the meantime.

When I left my husband a few years ago, I was overdue for a sexual upgrade and I wasted no time in achieving this. For the first time in years!!!!! my daughter was away from me for a few days at a time, so that I could just chill, do me, and I mean REALLY DO ME!! I re-ignited the embers that were my sensual side to such a fever pitch, that I had to run home at times to pleasure myself. You might say I was making up for lost time, LOL.

I created an atmosphere conducive to loving myself; I played sexy music, had candles burning, smoked a bit of reefer to allow more flow, bought fun toys, lingerie, the works. I didn’t want a lover at the time, I wanted to discover ME! to uncover ME! to uncork ME! to unleash ME! and that’s exactly what I did.

The effulgence that infused me from this delightful self-love, spilled out into all areas of my life. I FELT sexier, I looked sexier, I walked with a swish to my hips as though saying to the world, “Don’t you just wish you could have a taste of this?”

I also became a walking pheromone, men and women were drawn to me like magnets – I had guys screaming at me on the highway for my phone number (I gave it to them and had some fun dates); men in the grocery store followed me from isle to isle, one even scored my number in the produce section and became my dating partner for a few months. Everywhere I went, I was trailed by sexy humans.

So here’s the upshot… You want Alignment? Have an orgasm. You want to build momentum? Have another orgasm. You want to attract juicy situations/people into your life? Have a delicious go at YOU! Take that body out for a test drive, check out the parts that you haven’t visited for a while, realize that you have this incredible source of pleasure at your fingertips just waiting to be recognized and set free.

I’ll tell you what I tell my teenage daughter, “It only takes one to make a party!”

Isn’t it Time to get it TUNED IN, TAPPED IN, AND TURNED ON Creator?

Yea, that’s what I thought~*

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